People like me for my brains and skills in performance|entertainment.
People like the Irish singer who just had a son Freddie, because like her last name is French (Orla Karron Fallon .. the middle name) and she has a lot of bone and muscle that looks very ever-present yet thick and sleek in a way .. looks cute and is able to work with that, get thinner but stay robust, like I've done when I was more alone than my current social situation.