Ellen, this is about me not my dad.
You acted like my little cousin was a more high-spirited and even attractive person than me. You wanted to set her up, and you did and you fail. You will not flip your view on the little sister, who has built a pile of deeds against me, not too much since you'd know.
Ellen, I guess you're in on being nicer to other kids than me. I may not be perfect, but you cannot follow the older aunt and say you just are concerned about that, not my comfort and near-death experience.